#5: Learn to find the right spot
Many men make the mistake of treating their fingers like a dildo or a penis. If you’re fingering your woman, you have a better advantage because you can stimulate her in areas your penis might not be able to do so. In other words, your fingers have a direct access to her organs that could heighten her pleasure. So, learn to use your fingers creatively. Another important thing to remember is that you must always look at a woman in the eye while exploring her body.
No matter how aroused we were, my girlfriend was happy whenever I communicated with her. It doesn’t have to be silent communication because you can always compliment her for her beautiful body. Whispering sweet nothings in her ear while making love is simply an art and women love it. In order to hit the right spot, you need to remember that women have two areas that prove to be effective. These two areas, namely the deep-spot and G-spot, are responsible to make a woman get her orgasm.
As you insert your finger inside the walls of her vagina, you will find her G-spot located about 3-4 inches inside. If you probe a little deeper, you will find her deep-spot and while the G-spot is ridged, the deep-spot is smooth and soft.
I would make sure that I would caress both the spots in order to excite my woman. There is no need to follow any particular rhythm here, and there are no rules to be remembered, but just take it slow so that your partner gets adjusted to it too. I have never met a woman who hasn’t loved it when her G-spot was probed, so it’s very obvious that women crave for it.
If you’re unsure about her spots, just follow her reactions closely because that will tell you where she wants to be touched. Some women might not want you to continue when you probe deeper because it creates an urge to urinate. Whenever my girlfriend would feel that she wanted to urinate, I would tell her it’s just a feeling because it’s not possible to urinate and orgasm at the same time. Since it is located near the bladder, it’s common to feel so.